How to Fall in Love with Robert Bly


Rest a book of his on the kitchen table, next

to your coffee cup topped with a touch of cream.

Turn on morning music and swallow

 

his words with each sip of breakfast blend.

Raise the curtains, and watch the golden

finches fly back and forth between long vines

 

in search of berries. Rest a book of his

on the kitchen table and open it with

the gentle grace of touching a child's face.

 

Remember, there is company in solitude,

and sometimes it's the loneness that fills

the space. Rest a book of his on the kitchen

 

table, and think of the cows drinking rainwater

across the meadow, and the sheep grazing

on high grass near the river, their bodies

 

warm as a mother's breast. Cry for the world's

willingness to ignore the unknown, know that your

weeping is heard by a sky teeming with stars.

 

Rest a book of his on the kitchen table,

and open it sweetly like the midnight

turndown of a coverlet on a forgiving bed-

 

exhaust yourself with memories of the dead

until your whole being is a living ghost

of all the people you've lost, your arms

 

weak from holding grief and a thousand

letters written on clouds through a stream

of sunlight, thin as a strand of hair-

 

tell your children you will always be there,

that you'll never leave, though leaving is certain

as suicide in silence, inevitable as men

 

turning away from love. Rest a book

of his on the kitchen table, and imagine

him reading The Untempered Soul.

 

Put your hand on the pages, and touch

the drums. Run your fingers through

unseen air in figure eights. Look up

 

existence in the dictionary-it will say

something that exists. Look up

nonexistence in the dictionary-it will

 

be there, in spite of its absence.

Rest a book of his on the kitchen table

because no one knows what it does between

 

readings, on days you've looked away,

abandoned your own heart in search

of another's- his book will be waiting

 

for the white windowed-light, opened,

and unopened, read, and unread,

whether you know it or not, until his poems

 

are part of you, have found their way home,

where they'll live and breathe, leave and enter

just as the golden finch carries on,

 

comes and goes, despite your absence





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